It has to be said that no matter what the provocation, no manager of any foootball club can be seen to even attempt to throw a punch at a member of the oppostion staff (or supporter or anybody else for that matter). There is no excuse and it has put a VERY sour note on what was obviously a brilliant display by the lads. Somebody somewhere needs to get a grip (and I don't mean by the throat).
As regards Torquay fans singing "going down" (and I was one of those on the pitch in a fit of anger mixed with sadness when the Kiddy fans taunted us on that fateful final day), you have to say to a certain extent "so what". It's football, it's part and parcel of what fans do, just like swearing. Whilst we may find it distasteful and some of us may not indulge in it ourselves, there are others amongst our number who would have no qualms about singing the same at opposition fans. Fans sing and fans taunt the world over.